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I began studying about polyamory; exactly what it’s, tales of the others like me, things to do about it. Following a very long time, a feeling of calmness had dawned on me. Yes, I had been different, however I was not wrong and that I was not alone. Years of heteronormative and monogamous conditioning on morality, being a ‘good’ girl, gradually unravelled. It had been possible to be dedicated but sleep with over one; find unique items in various spouses; be different individuals with various partners.
It had been possible to be dedicated but sleep with over one; find unique items in various spouses; be different individuals with various partners.
Unexpectedly, my intimate trip from the flings into my ex into a joyful yet miserable union — all made sense.
Where do I go from here? Well, nowhere actually, because my husband doesn’t understand any of the. I simply don’t understand how to attract my very conservative husband. I’d love for this to be a two-way road. For us to remain married yet not restricted to one another. I am aware this is the only way for me to be joyful. But will it make him happy? He likely is a monogamous man and needs me to just be with him as he will just be with me.
I see four choices — remain unhappily married until one day I walk out leaving my spouse whined about what occurred; not inform him have affairs on the side, until one day he sees out and we end in divorce inform him probably wind up getting divorced; inform him and possibly things really work out. The first two appear more likely, to tell the truth, the next one isn’t who I wish to be, and also the previous one actually the most contested. I stand on the precipice of what might be. Until I drop to both sides, a girl can dream.
He plays but I am not supposed to
Monogamy was intended for the housewife, maybe not the apsara — Devdutt Pattanaik